This article just goes to show how fragile some relationships can be, and this one, after the first argument for months, ends in a separation. The moral? Lasting relationships need deep roots.
We have been together for a few months now, and last weekend we had a fight, the first one for months. It was over nothing important really. Except that it mattered at the time.
In the heat of the moment we both said and did things we regretted, and afterward he walked out and left me. He said that he wanted some time to think things through, and he also wants to do well in his job.
He went on to mention that he does not want a relationship just now either, it is too soon for him, so I was pretty devastated after hearing this, as you can imagine. It came out of the blue.
If this is a familiar story in your life, do not be downhearted, there are things you can do, if you really want your ex boyfriend back. But it must be mutual, you cannot force your attention on him, he has to decide for himself.
The best thing to do is first, to let matters cool down. I know it is hard, because the first thing you want to do after a fight is to meet and talk about what sparked things off. Was it something you said or did?
It is unlikely to be something that cannot be worked out between you, but you have to give him time and space, because he has asked for that.
Doing anything different will only make it more difficult to get him back. If it is meant to be between you, he will come back to you, in time.
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